Sunday, November 20, 2011

"We will up our game this week."

Dear Family and Friends,


Elder Terry was made the driver a week ago because Elder Furner was tickling me and I didn't like it so I ran away from him and I hit my hand against the wall super hard. It was hurting with every movement I did with it for at least 5-6 days. I couldn't drive after that because it hurt to turn the wheel, so I have Elder Terry take over. But then we got into an accident on Friday. We rear-ended a car in front of us. Elder Terry still had his driving privileges, which we were both surprised about, but he didn't want to drive anymore because he was very shaken up about the whole experience.

Elder Terry is a really awesome missionary. He is really creative person and he and I talk a lot together. We are getting along well.

I am eating better than I was. I bought some carrots, peaches, and apples and I have been eating them. I have still been eating some really good haitian food. I just need to cut back on candy a little bit.

We have this new investigator named Nancy who is really excited. She gave us sospwa, legim, diri, ak poul. I hope I can learn how to make some Haitian food before I come home. There are actually a lot of Haitians in Utah from what I have heard. Many of the members in the Miami Shores ward and planning on moving to Utah. Anyway, Nancy is looking for the true church and she wants to come. She visited the church with her friend up in Fort Lauderdale, and her friend got baptized this weekend! She has a date for the 4th of December. She is really discouraged about how her life is going right now. I know that our message can make her happier.

Our main investigators are Carlo, Georges, Leroni, Nancy, Carol, Bertony, the Louhidon kids, and Roodschill. Georges went to church last week and he was super excited. We have been showing him Mormon.org videos on the computer lately. The good news is that he is applying for the front desk job at the Marriot Hotel. It is looking really likely that he will get it. Plus, the pay is higher and he would be given every Sunday off because the other person who works there gets Saturday's off because she is a Seventh Day's Adventist. We are really hoping that he will get the position. Georges has worked so hard to get to where he is now and this would change everything for him. He really wants to get baptized so badly and he is exhausted every time he goes home from work.

Carlo was supposed to be baptized this coming Sunday, but he is putting it to the 27th, because a few members of the ward won't be there on the 20th. He wants Brother Richens, the ward mission leader, the Kovacivic's, Sister Monestine, the Victor's, and many other people to come. He is fully integrated into the ward and everyone says hi to him. It is so awesome! He has been having some back problems lately, but he is feeling a lot better. He loves making food for us. He is so nice. He said that he was going to make Mayi Moulen ak sos for us this week. Mayi moulen is like a corn meal substance that is made into a paste, but is then mixed in with a tasty sauce. I didn't like it before, but the way Carlo makes it is so good. We are very happy for him. Plus he agreed to give one of our investigators Leroni, a ride to church next week. Oh, and Leroni came to church yesterday! She had a really good time. She is a really funny Haitian woman that makes jokes and laughs a lot. She is awesome!

Roodschill is a great kid. He is 13 years old. He is the son of one of our former investigators, who said she is still interested in getting baptized. He says that he wants to get his life in order so that he can be "good with Jesus." He prayed about whether or not the Book of Mormon is true and whether or not what we told him is true. He told us that he had this feeling as though lightning went through his body and hit him in his head and in his heart. He told us that he will get baptized. He is a super awesome kid. I have never had any kid get that specific of an answer before since I have been on the mission. That was a great experience. Kiara Louhidon (she is 11) also received her answer. Alisha (she is 8) is a little upset because she has been praying and she hasn't felt anything. We told her that getting a spiritual witness is like seeing light, and we quoted Elder Bednar's talk about how it will either come suddenly like when a light is turned on and the room is illuminated all at once, or it will come gradually like a sunrise and it will come a little bit at a time. That helped her out a lot. They are doing well. Their mom just needs to get on the ball and get active again.

Carine is doing awesome! She got on the bus and came to church on time, even though her ride didn't go to church until sacrament meeting. She has so many member friends, both American and Haitian. We taught her about baptisms for the dead and patriarchal blessings last night and she is getting a temple recommend from Bishop Finlinson this week.

This week wasn't as good number wise, but we still have many great things happening. We will up our game this week. It has been a little interesting in the apartment between Elder Furner, Elder Patino, and Elder Terry, but things are still going well.

I also went to the post office to pick up the package with the toothbrush heads finally. Thank you, Mom. I love you so much. You have been so nice and you have been helping me a lot on the mission. I will never forget that.

Bye everyone! I have to go. I love you!

Love,

Elder Seamons

Thursday, November 10, 2011

"I am so greatful for the experiences that we have been having. "

November 7. 2011

Hi Everyone! I am doing well.


One thing that I have been thinking about is the progress I have made on my mission. I sometimes feel like I could have put a better effort. Sometimes I go through the motions and just lose the energy that I had. I am on the tail end of the mission, so I am going to up the efforts.

I realize now that loving people and the relationships that you build is the best part of the mission. We can build people up, show them our love, and be their friends forever.

I want to be the self-less person I know that I am capable of becoming. With all of the responsibilities, emotions, and thoughts that I am trying to balance out, it seems almost impossible. The leadership wants me to follow-up a lot on my district, help them be accountable for the dozens of commitments that the mission has been giving everyone, make sure that there is a "steady, upward trend" in everyone's key indicators, and make sure that everyone is helping enough people be baptized. Baptisms are important because it is a soul who is receiving the necessary ordinances to gain eternal life. It is hard to keep daily contact and make sure that this happens. I will work it out though, with God's help. I know that I can end the mission on a high note.

Tonight we are doing a family home evening activity at Bishop Finlinson's house and Cindy, the Miami Shore Creole area's recent convert, will be there. Elder Furner is worried because she was sick and couldn't come to church to be confirmed. We don't want her to not get confirmed and go less active. I think she will be okay. Sister Finlinson is picking her up at 7:15 pm, and the activity will start at 7:30 pm. Hopefully Carine can come. She was confirmed yesterday! That is so exciting!

I am so greatful for the experiences that we have been having. We have had several people who have told us that we were the answers to their prayers or that they feel that God sent us there for a special reason. I hope that I can continue to bring people unto Christ in that capacity.

I love you all so much! Pray for me that I will be able to gain momentum and end on a high note in the mission. Pray for Carine and Cindy that they can stay active! Pray for Merline, Sister Grove, Stanley, Glindy, Cynithe, Malika, Antonetta that they can be reactivated. They are recent converts that have fallen away that were baptized in this ward not too long ago.

Love,

Elder Seamons

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

"This week was an amazing week. Carine got baptized!"


Dear family and friends,

This week was an amazing week. We had a lot of great things happen. First off, Carine got baptized! I am so happy. She is an amazing woman! Her and Ernst are still having problems, but we told them both that as long as they tried to become more Christ-like as individuals, read in the scriptures, and pray, then they would get closer together as a couple. We realized that as long as they pass the baptismal interview, it is still okay. Carine is for sure ready. She is keeping all her commitments. Sister Monestine, who does Creole translation for Sacrament meeting, told us that other members said that Carrine had been calling them when they didn't show up to church to see how they were doing. That is so awesome! Plus Duponte has not missed a week of church since the first Sunday he randomly showed up to church in August. He went to Carine's baptism yesterday. So did Carlo. He wanted to see because he loves baptisms and he heard that I was baptizing, so he wanted to see it, because he saw that I had to do it twice for the kid I baptized a month ago, so he said that I didn't have power when I did it. He has been feeding us a lot to make us "stronger" He said I did a good job yesterday. He told Elder Terry when he got in the area that Elder Terry would do his baptism because I was too weak. :) I thought that was funny. I am a little disappointed I might not be doing it because I have been teaching him forever.

Cindy also was baptized! She is the South Elder's investigator. She was an investigator that Elder Furner and Elder Clark lost contact with before I came to the area. We spent a lot of time trying to track her down, but then three weeks ago she gave Elder Shipley and I a call and now Elder Furner and Elder Hartman have baptized her because she is in there area. She is awesome!

By the way, the mission had 74 baptisms this month. That is pretty good.

Also, they enlarged the mission boundaries and more missionaries will be added to the mission from the Orlando mission.  Now we will have 160 missionaries.

Also, Roodschill, Alisha, and Kiara all received distinct answers that this church is true and that the book of Mormon is true! They are all kids. Roodschill said he asked if the Mormons were true and he had a feeling as though electricity went through his whole body and lighted his soul. For a thirteen year old kid, that is super awesome. He has a date for the 13th.

Alisha had the feeling, but she doesn't recognize that this is the true church yet. She asked "is the Mormon church true, or should I go to the seventh day church," and she had a good feeling and she assumed that meant that she should go to the seventh day. But she isn't quite sure yet. But she is positive she had a feeling.

Tido is okay. He is happy and he is excited to come to church some time. He forgave us.

Carine had a dream on Saturday night that if she got baptized without her husband, he wouldn't get baptized. We prayed in a room about what to do, and we decided in the end to have Carine focus on how she felt about the dream. She wasn’t exactly sure what the dream meant or what was going on.

We took brother Kovacavic to Carlo's house and Carlo invited him to his house to eat Haitian food with us on Sunday. Him and his wife came and it was an awesome experience. Carlo invited them both to come on Wednesday again to eat some more food.

Elder Hartman is going home because of some back problems. We are amazing that this is happening. Elder Terry, Elder Furner, and I will be in a threesome until the end of the week.


Bye everyone! I love you!

Love
Elder Seamons

[answer to some questions] I am driving.  Elder Furner is in the apartment with us and his Companion is Elder Hartman from Idaho. I am still the district leader.


Baptism of Corine


Sunrise with Elder Terry and Elder Seamons

Monday, October 24, 2011

"Elder Terry is my new companion! I am so excited about that" plus some mission miracles that will give you goosebumps


 Elder Terry, Eric's new companion, is a young man from Lone Peak High School where Eric went to school. They didn't know each other well at school but were in the MTC together and got to be companions for the last week or so there, since Eric's MTC companion went to Montreal- Haitian speaking. Eric really appreciated Elder Terry's sense of humor and I think it will be good for Eric to spend some time with someone who will lighten him up some. A side note-- Elder Terry's grandparents lived in the church congregation in Paul, Idaho, where Kent grew up and Eric's grandparents lived. We found out after they were both called to work with the Haitians in the Fort Lauderdale mission, that Elder Seamons' grandparents were at Elder Terry's parent's wedding ceremony. It is a small world!

October 24, 2011

Hello Everyone! Elder Terry is my new companion! I am so excited about that. He is a really good missionary and we are having great things going on right now. Elder Shipley and I had many investigators going into this transfer and we have been keeping busy. Ernst and Carrine are being baptized this week! I am so excited about that. Carrine is doing super well! She has been to church on her own, and we haven't had to search for a ride for her for the last 5 times she has come. Sister Monestine told us that several members informed her that Carrine has been calling people that she didn't see at church on Sunday. That made us so excited. She is going to be a great member! Ernst isn't doing quite as well. He wasn't at church for the last two weeks, so we will see what is going to happen, but it might have been because of his work, which is on call and sometimes makes him work on Sunday. We did make a goal in the Book of Mormon for reading, and he says he will accomplish it.

Gulbert feels good about the restoration, Book of Mormon and everything that we have been teaching, and he has been praying about it, but he doesn't feel ready yet and he is afraid of falling away after he gets baptized. It is a common problem with Haitians wanting to be perfect before baptism. Roni, his brother, has been reading every day and he has a desire to be baptized which wasn't there before. I am seeing a change in him. But he wants to do it in his Mom's church. He doesn't fully understand the restoration yet. We will have to go over that again.

This is going to be a really exciting transfer. We have all of the skills we need as a companionship. We still have to develop more, but we are both very experienced, so if we work hard and try our best, we will do pretty well. We have been slacking on Daily contact and member work. Once we get both of those rolling well, we will be able to have much success. The members are such a powerful source in an investigator's conversion.

Spencer and his wife are learning and understanding the restoration really well. Spencer has been telling us that he has been saying specific prayers and asking if the Book of Mormon is true and if Joseph Smith is a true prophet. We emphasized that a lot in one of our past lessons with them. They just need to come to church more. The family has been once. More dilligence in church attendance will do a lot of good. We just don't want to baptize people who "fullfil the requirements," but are truly converted. I have seen way too many people that have had that happen. Our ward list in the Miami Shores Ward has 600 or so people in it, but only 250 come. In Coconut Creek, there are about 900 people on the ward list and only 300 or so that go. We need to have better retention in the church as a whole. I do feel good about Dupont though. He is doing really great. He takes the bus every week to the church and he has come out with us many times and he understands the Book of Mormon really well. But even more than what the people we teach are doing, looking at the desires of their hearts and their dilligence in what they do is important. There are many people who can come to church, but if they come five times because a member gave them a ride, and then they get baptized, they might not continue to come without people pulling them along. Elder Shipley and I worked a lot on helping people become self-sufficient as they become newly baptized and confirmed members of the church. 

Pray that we can be the best missionaries as possible. We have been blessed with an extremely fruitful area. There are so many people who agree to meet with us and listen to our message. And many of them agree to keep their commitments. We just need to do our part to be there to help them. I have a sad story from this week about how we were not their for an investigator:

There is a Haitian man named Brother Tido who has been in the United States for many years and he married a Jamaican woman. He has serious problems in his feet and when he walks a few feet they begin to swell. He has been in a lot of pain for the last few weeks and we gave him a blessing. The North Miami Beach Spanish elders contacted him, but they still pass by when they are in the area. We had some appointments that fell through with him because we couldn't go over, but we forgot to call him. They passed by and he was telling them about how we had an appointment with him, which he had missed a doctor's appointment for, but we didn't come. Then we came to appoligize and we invited him to church. We said we would try and find a wheel chair for him so he could go. He was really excited and we set another appointment too. We had that fall through because of something (I don't remember what), and we called the elder's quorum president and he said he would get a wheel chair somehow, but we called him later and he never responded. So in the end we missed two appointments with Tido and we didn't get him a wheel chair. He told the other elders that he can't trust two liars who don't keep their word. I felt so horrible when I heard what had happened. I feel like I have completely failed that man. The other elders told me they feel like he is ready to be baptized. I should have been more responsible with him. We have just had so many people to see that I wasn't thinking too much about Tido. However, I am going to make sure that we go over, apologize, tell him that we now have a wheel chair, becaue we got the okay to let him use the one in the church, and we will be better at keeping our appointments with him. We are never going to break his trust again. No one who doesn't be true and faithful in all things can't be a representative of Jesus Christ. Because Christ would not fail a person. I am going to be a better representative this week.

I know that the Atonement is real and that we can be redeemed from our mistakes. It is the most wonderful part of our message. I know that God is preparing people to meet with us, as well as missionaries all over the world.

Several wonderful things are happening over in Coconut Creek that are really exciting. I taught someone named Nika Alexander over a year ago when I was with Elder Bolz, but we lost contact with her. She had many problems in her life back then. Elder Chandler and Elder Terry told me that they looked her up in the area book and they stopped by. I put a big note that future missionaries needed to check up on her. Plus Elder Chandler had taught her for a few weeks as well. Nika apparently was in the shower and she was crying and she told god that she felt totally abandoned and that she needed help to overcome her problems. as soon as she finished the prayer, she heard a knock on the door. She quickly got out, dressed, and she opened the door, and the missionaries were standing there. She was really shocked and she let them in. Then she started sobbing and she told them all of her difficulties and how she was looking for a sign that God still cared about her. She agreed to prepare for baptism! Also, Daline Figaro who Elder Rybin and I were teaching is finally getting baptized this week! I thought the day would never come! I am so happy! That girl is awesome! A long time mystery has been solved though. I wondered why her mom was so against her being baptized, and the other missionaries told me that her mom went to a church where they taught people voudou. I have noticed that most people who are into voudou feel threatened by us and that they don't want their children getting baptized in the church we represent.

Anyway. Coconut Creek is doing well. Miami Shores is doing well. I am so happy now! I love you all! Pray that we may have success. Bye!

Love,

Elder Seamons

Some interesting "Wow" stories from the mission:

“We taught a family the restoration on our next visit and they ate it up as if they were starving for the truth the husband, Alex was asking us during the lesson the same question that Joseph Smith had [James 1:15]. We excitedly taught them and introduced the Book of Mormon to them, and the wife, who had been pretty quiet yet receptive, opened up to us and told us about a dream she had a few nights ago. It was about her neighbor, the one who referred the family, and she had offered her a bible but this one was different. She said she didn't recognize the book until we pulled it out and gave it to her. She quickly said ‘that’s the book!!’




A story from President Anderson:

We received 9 new missionaries this last week (Tuesday) and after interviews and orientation, we sent them out to leave a Book of Mormon (they had written a testimony inside the cover) in a nearby neighborhood. They came back excited about the great experience they had. As we were in between sessions of  Stake Conference in Fort Lauderdale Saturday, a sister came up to us, and the Stake President, and told us of a story she saw on the Miami Network News. The reporters were interviewing people in a neighborhood (about a mile or two from the Mission Home) concerning a tornado that came through and devastated the area on Tuesday night, destroying dozens of homes. One woman they were interviewing was asked how her home sustained no damage yet both homes next to her were almost destroyed. She told the journalist that 10 minutes before the tornado hit, 3 young men in white shirts and ties came to her house and left a sacred book. She then showed the reporter a Book of Mormon and they opened it on camera and read parts of the testimony that was written inside the cover. It talked about the truth of this book and that it will be a source of the Spirit and protection. She praised and thanked Heavenly Father and these Missionaries for leaving this book which she testified on camera protected her home.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

To be a missionary and to be like Christ, we have to become as a little child

Dear friends and family,

Hi everyone! I am staying in Miami for my 5th transfer! I am so excited! There are so many people who are preparing for baptism right now. Elder Shipley and I have a goal for 11 baptisms this month. That is very possible because of the number of people who have been to church already, but we haven't been doing our part as much. Our obedience has been slacking a lot, but we are going to do better. We are going to give our all to these people. Elder Shipley is leaving and I am very sad about that. We have been together for 2 1/2 transfers. I love Elder Shipley so much! He is so good at prioritizing, recognizing when he can do better, and changing his actions. I have grown so much since I have been with him. My faith is becoming so much stronger. I am not someone who is very trusting in certain aspects and I have allowed myself to doubt whether everything will be okay. It will be. I am scared to death about these next two weeks. President is expecting me to do some amazing things. God is expecting me to do amazing things. I realize now how weak I am. My own abilities are really nothing. To be a missionary and to be like Christ, we have to become as a little child: humble, trusting, loving, 100% dependant on our Father in Heaven. So many people are counting on my success. I don't want to fail these people at all. I need prayers right now. My new companion and I need prayers right now. I want to help these 11 people get baptized so badly! All of them are capable of making it. All of them are very prepared. They just need the extra help. I love these people.

Down below is my letter to President Anderson for this week. These are all the people that you all need to pray for. If you don't do anything else to help me, please pray for these people. There is going to need to be a miracle to get them baptized and to help them gain the faith to make this large of a step in such a short amount of time.

By the way mom, I got the cookies that Laurie sent to me. I am so happy you sent those cookies to me Aunt Laurie. I love you so much. It is so comforting to know that people are out there to help support me when I have such a large task at hand.

I also had the Thai Peanut noodles from the package. It was really good! Thank you so much! I will have the Pad Thai noodles during the week.

I don't know who my companion will be yet. Elder Edwards also is leaving. That means that Elder Furner and I will be the only two left in the apartment from this transfer. Sister Bloomfield, one of the sisters that came out the same time as I did is leaving from the Miami Beach YSA branch. I don't like change, but God is behind it, so it will be for the best. I will know tomorrow. I think it will be Elder Terry just because of what other missionaries have told me about who is transferring and who is not. The only two Creole missionaries who are leaving are Elder Shipley and Elder Terry. Every other Creole missionary is staying.

I need to go! I love you all! Bye! Pray for those names and pray for me and my companion.

Love,

Elder Seamons

Hello President! I am so excited for October! I am so grateful that Elder Shipley and I have been able to have such great success together as a companionship. I know that God lives and that he truly is a God of miracles. I have lacked the faith to move all of the mountains that I am capable of moving. It is time to move them all.

Here is our baptismal goal for this month: 11

Here are the most likely candidates:

Ernst/Carrine
Robert/Rosemonde
Gulbert/Roni
Spencer/Cleante
Kattia
Carol/Bertony
Georges
Florise
Cheri family
Here is my actions for all of them:

Daily contact (from me and the members)
During this daily contact we will:
follow up on reading/praying
answering questions
reminding them of their baptismal date
help them find a way to get to church if none
testify
read with them if they didn't
Give each of them a goal for number of Chapters to read before baptism.
Make these people first priority and put others who are not ready yet on hold.
Focus on them being "Pricked in their hearts" as the scriptures say (Acts 2:37)
Update the area book every night
Go to bed/get up/get to studies on time
Out the door at 11:45, to first appointment at 12:00

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

"I know the gospel is true and I will preach it everywhere until I am done."


October 10th, 2011

Dear Family and Friends,

We are continuing to have much success in finding people. We are not worried about finding people to teach anymore. The big problem for us is helping these people understand. Some of them don't understand why we go by their house and think that we just go to do a "bible study." We realized that we need to be more clear and bold with people. I have told some people very boldly that this is the true church and that we are here to help them change their life and be baptized. Our lessons with them should be life changing and the most important thing that has ever happened to them in the eternal perspective. If they don't understand that, they aren't prepared. We do it with love by telling them that we care about them and we bear our testimony of the Savior, but we do tell them the simple fact of the matter as well.

We have a huge teaching pool, but some of our investigators are having difficulties with their commitments. Novotna and Barbara are flaking out now. They are 15 and 17 year-old Haitian girls. They are both reading and praying, but they have had difficulty coming to church and they aren't really working towards baptism. We are planning on having a serious talk with them next time we come to see them. We will see them on Tuesday. Ernst and Carrine are having the same marital problems. It is really sad and also frustrating. They don't ever spend time together anymore, sleep in the same bed, or even talk to each other. Ernst feels that Carrine isn't doing her part, so he wants her to start doing counseling and then he will follow after her. Carrine is ready to be baptized, but she doesn't want to be baptized until the marriage problem is resolved. We are not sure if they should still be baptized when they are having marital problems like this. But not all marriages will work out. It may be the spouse's fault or something like that. If they fulfill the requirements in the interview, I guess that is what is most important. That shows that they are doing their part.

We blessed a Haitian family. Jezila, Paul (her cousin), and Marrise ( Paul's wife), and other people live in that house. It is full of Haitians. They all think it is funny that we speak Creole. Jezila is a seventh-day Adventist, but last night in our second visit with her, she told us that she was baptized into the LDS church when she was 18 because she had a whole bunch of friends in it, but then a year and a half ago she got baptized in the Seventh-day church. However, she is interested in reading in the Book of Mormon, praying about it, and coming to the church. She agreed to come to the church and we said we would find her a ride for her first visit back in a long time.

On the fifth Sunday a month ago, the ward called 50 percent of the less actives during a combined meeting and got a status check up on them. It is called the Shepherding List. We have contacted several of them who have agreed to let us bless their homes. One of the families we are visiting is the Louhidan family. Their mom is less active and the kids aren't baptized yet. They are awesome. We gave them the picture book of Mormon and agreed to throw them a pizza party if all three of them read the whole book.

Gulbert came to church for the first time! Plus his brother Roni randomly showed up. We weren't expecting that at all! I hope they had a good time. Carlo came again and was the only one in the Gospel principles class, so Brother Richens, the ward mission leader, answered his questions for the whole time. After church, he fed us and Brother Melkisedeck rice and beans and pork with spices in it. It was amazing!

Well,

I am out of time! I love you all! I know the gospel is true and I will preach it everywhere until I am done. Bye!

Love,

Elder Seamons

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

"I loved this conference. I feel it was meant for me."


October 3rd, 2011
Dear Family and Friends,

We had conference this week! All the sessions were broadcasted in our building. The chapel was for the Spanish translation, the Cultural Hall was for English, and the Nursery was for Creole. But for Creole The TV had a transmitter hooked up to it, so they could sit in the English room while they listened to it in Creole. Salt Lake translates everything and sends it to each meeting house where the broadcasts are being done. The Saturday sessions were very empty because most people watched them at home, but the Priesthood session and the Sunday Sessions were a lot more full. We had four investigators come to the building during both of the days. We had many more who had promised to come and had even found a ride for themselves, but they didn't come, so we were disappointed. But we still had a great weekend. Carlo, Carrine, Ernst, and Novotna came to Conference! Carlo Came to 3 of the sessions and so did Carrine. Ernst was there for one and Novatna came for half of one.

Carlo invited us over for lunch after the first session on Saturday. We had diri kole and Chicken and Sauce. It was so good. Plus Carlo had a really good Salad with it. He has been cooking for us lately because he wants to make sure that we will have enough strength to baptize him without dropping him. He is so funny! He also has been asking us to find a Haitian member of the church to have him marry because he doesn't want to be alone. He wants to go and tell people that he is single and has no woman to take care of him. We told him to do that himself.

I loved this conference. It was so wonderful. It is such a blessing to have prophets and apostles to guide us. They counsel that was given is so applicable to me and my investigators. I feel it was meant for me. I realized that I need to be up-ing my efforts and looking heavenward for answers. I realize that I have let obedience slack and I haven't been magnifying my call as I should. Plus I need to recognize that I can pray for help to specific problems. I don't do that as much as I should. My biggest thing I will do to change is to focus on the most important things and just trust that everything else will work itself out.

Ernst and Carrine are still having marriage problems. We had a sit down with them two weeks ago and told them to do read a verse in the Book of Mormon, pray together, and do Companionship inventory (the 3 questions) every night. It is something that Sister Hale implemented in the mission that everyone still does. We answer the questions, “What did I love about my companion today?” “What did I learn today?” “What can I do better tomorrow?” She majored in marriage counseling, so these questions are very good. We told them to do it as soon as we left and to text us ten minutes later. Carrine jumped on it, but Ernst told her that he was busy looking for his drivers license that he couldn't find. He didn't even take five minutes. It never ended up happening and we weren't happy about it. Their marriage will never improve if they don't do those things, neither will they come closer to Christ if they can't find time to read and pray for five minutes a night. We set a date with Ernst for possible on the 9th, but we will have to put it off because he isn't ready to be baptized. We will tell him if he can't do this inventory with his wife and start making progress, we will have to drop him.

Both Elder Shipley and I had the thought to invite Cemania to come to a session of conference, but I pushed the thought aside because I felt that Cemania would say no. But Elder Shipley told me we should invite her, so we did. She was so excited to see us and she gave us both a hug. She said she would try her best to come. She even told us yesterday the same thing when we called to confirm. But the never did. We left some messages on her phone and texted her. We are wondering if she got scared about coming back to the church, even just for conference and she ran away. She told us that she is going through a lot of hard things right now. She told us that she isn't going to any church anymore just because she is tired of all of the confusion. We told her that we would still love her even if she didn't end up coming back. We just care about her.

Well. Time is up! I have to go! Bye!  I love you!

Love,

Elder Seamons